Finding her, after She lost her

Most women on getting married lose a piece of her and gradually with days counting she loses herself and becomes a manual guide which contains only data fed by the family into which she has moved into. 
And the guide contains the facts like.

Forget your family…this is your new home.
Forget what you studied, learn to do things in a new way.
Forget what you have been earlier …that doesn’t matter to us.
You wanna go to your home, oh that’s impossible…
You wanna go to your home, you need your husband’s family’s permission.
Always prioritize your husband’s family and not yours.
You are a guest at both your parent’s home and your husband’s home.
You have to ask your husband, even before you step out.
You stay home and take care of your husband’s family.
You can go to work, but I won’t be helping you with any things. Your job depends on how you manage.
..

Crap and nonsense fed to the minds like these ruin society.  Where is a healthy relationship here? One has to sacrifice so much for just another person.

Women, if you want to find yourself, be bold, strong and independent. Strangely saving her is the toughest task she has to go through. Be who you are no matter none supports you. This is why a woman has to be independent and strong.
It is hard, but not impossible.


#sreepriyawrites #womanhood #beingher #herstory #woman #notfeminism #respectingher #instawriters #writeforfreedom

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