How to Overcome Negative thoughts and embrace Positivism ?

“Having a positive mental attitude is asking how something can be done rather than saying it can’t be done.”

Bo Bennett

It all starts with a gesture, a word or something said by someone or someone so dear to us. And then without any other external effort, we start building a mountain of problems and negative thoughts, which were never in the beginning.

We begin to feel sorry for ourselves and start to belittle ourselves and get drenched in our rain cloud. These accumulating thoughts just go on and on and we are unable to control them. It slowly eats up our conscience and we just lose ourselves into that loop, losing a piece of our selves in that chaos.

So here are some tips, that will help you overcome negative thoughts:

  1. Be the treasure hunter when in negative thought. Find the best out of any negative situation. Like if you have failed upon something, find what you earned from it, be it a lesson or another opportunity. Ask questions to yourself and you are sure to find an appropriate answer to it.
  2. Question yourself, when you are amidst negative thoughts. Is it worth to be upset about that or do you need to take it seriously? It is better to deviate yourself from these thoughts and over a small mistake and then focus on other better things. These questions give you a reality check on the aspects and lets you think clearly.
  3. Keep yourself away from the negative spaces or people or even things. It might be social media, people you know, or even things that remind you of negative things. Stay away from them, and then make use of that space and time effectively.
  4. Let a molehill be a molehill than a mountain. We all have the habit of turning molehills to mountains. And finally who suffers, just us. We panic undauntedly over things that are really not in our control and then waste our time over it.
  5. Talk it out always. An ideal solution for everyone. Talk to someone who knows you well or never judge you over anything.
  6. Breath in and breathe out when you are filling in with negative thoughts. Take yourself out of the situation and then take a break from that negative environment.
  7. Never let vague fears crawl into your mind. Remember that all are different, hence one’s problem may not be your problem. Moreover, if you are not clear about the problem, and just run away from far without even taking a second look at it, then it is the biggest mistake. Sometimes the worst that might happen isn’t the worst you thought it would be.
  8. Guide others with positive aspects. We all are experts in solving other problems in just a click away. Sometimes the more we tend to help others, we tend to solve ours effectively.
  9. Be grateful for what you have. Not everyone around you has what you possess.Being thankful eliminates many unwanted thoughts.
  10. Remember – None care what you do. People speak, blame but they are hardly bothered about what you do. All they see is what they are.

Hence these are some easy tips, isn’t it?

Trust me, not so easy as it sounds though, but worth trying. There is no harm in trying all these.

Either you become successful in evading the negativity out from your life and bring in positivism. Or you might just end up learning another lesson.

In both ways, you are on the better side.

Good Luck !!

People are scared of the word Feminism- lets us see what it is

Interestingly not just half, the majority dont understand what feminism is.
The first thing that comes to their mind is that women want superiority..but it’s not just about women..but equal opportunity for both sexes.

It is hard as they shut their ears and become deaf as they never want to hear it. Those are the people who are the poison to society. They are reluctant to change their mind and blame society for progress.

They shut their eyes and call the world is dark. The hard part is that they learn it only the hard way.
Don’t know what to call such beings, but i feel ashamed for living among such ones.

They hardly know what it means to be standing strong and accepting facts. All they know is to shut themselves in the darkest corner and blame the world.

It is high time they open up their mind.

Build a healthy society. Give equal opportunity for all sexes irrespective of gender.

Evaluate a person for the quality of work, not on gender.
#sreepriyawrites #feminism #positivefeminism #equalityofsexes #realdefnitionoffeminism #whatisfeminism

Feminist Man bring up the best daughters

Series of inspiring movies…and what’s the best part of it?
Each movie speaks of brave women who have done great things. And in almost all these stories i found a great man, the father who is the backbone of every girl. Yes all these stories though depict the story of brave women, all these have in common is a feminist father or a man who stands behind her to push her to do the right thing, when everything else in the world condemns her or pushes her aside.

It is hard to find such men who actually can uphold a woman’s dream wholeheartedly. It takes great courage to be such a great man. And mostly only a father can be that man in most of the cases. For them, their daughters are great warriors. Only a father cannot see tears in the eyes of his daughter.
And truly such daughters are blessed.
But yes, we have the other worst side of the coin, wherein women are just entitled to do what the society decides. Never push your daughters into that dungeon, you are losing a real gem or a future that will make you proud.
Be that man, who supports feminism and is proud to stand beside the woman who is strong enough like you.

Like in the movie Pangaa, the lady is supported by her lil son and her husband.  When in the society it’s mostly the other way round. It is the girl who has to give up on her dreams.
For once, dream for your daughter, for your wife, for your sister, and for your mother or grandmother. They have given you enough, now give them space and opportunity to grow.

Let there be a saying ” behind every successful woman is a strong man”.

Happy Independence Day- Celebrate freedom in oneness

Freedom is precious, it opens us to new the world of knowledge and broadens our wisdom.

Let us all forget the dissimilarities and unite to celebrate the oneness of mind.

True minds never create a barrier but pave ways to join everything around irrespective of differences.
#sreepriyawrites #independeceday #celebratefreeedom #freedomofsouls #indianindependenceday