Growing up with her sister

Like all siblings they fight too, sometimes they eat our head, make us mad , irritate us , sometimes we loose control ,shout at them ,and many more  , just like normal parents.

Both sisters can’t stay away from each other, even my elder one can’t tolerate the thought of somebody taking her sister away from her. But the moment they are together , they start to fight on reasons. But am sure , they enjoy every bit together, and I want them to support each other life long. 

Younger one is so enthusiastic to be with her sister, the moment her sister goes to school, she becomes sad , as she doesn’t have anyone to fight with and spent her time, almost idle time sleeping or doing nothing, or just being around me. Once she sees her sister’s school bus, she starts jumping around , the happiness is so explicitly seen in her body language and I feel so happy to  see it. Afternoons are packed with fun , she doesn’t want even to sleep , she want to play with her sister all the time. I don’t remember how it was with my brother , but recollect it through my moms words how our childhood was.

She learns a lot from her sister, words , her manners , games , getting angry, and many more . Growing up together is fun , and when I see them together I feel so happy, They don’t need anyone else ,…and I wish its always like that forever.

I don’t want princess and fairies for my daughters

Princesses and fairies are merely imaginative , I don’t want my daughters to believe that life is so easy like a fairy tales.

Life is a struggle , a challenge  but i don’t want them to be serious over it, else they cannot enjoy it. I don’t know what lies in their future but I want them to learn many things from their present . Distinguish between good and bad, fake and real ,I want them to stay away from fake people , who just merely entertain them or play with them for time being and don’t even bother about them.  I am not sure how do I teach them who are real friends , but I will try to make them realise.

The world is full of a mixture , feel so worried and scared to live here, don’t know if the people we trust the lot will hurt us a lot. I get scared to send my kids anywhere, but thats not life , I know that we have to be bold enough to teach them to be bold too, because I know that my kids look up to me. I may not be a role model but I can show them, what should not be done, because  I have become what I am through my mistakes .

I want my kids to learn from their mistake and realise whats good for them, because we parents cannot teach them as well as they can realise themselves. The bits and pieces what I can do is , show them to accept what it is like accepting our mistakes, how it is like crying after a fright , because we don’t want to hurt anyone or get hurt.

Life would have easier if we were in a fairy tale….be brave my kids,to face the world.